Skills to Succeed

An uncertainty in Economy has lead to a  situation today wherein many have lost jobs and others  are struggling hard to keep up the pace .Businesses have been shattered due to recession and purchasing power is decreasing in the people.All this and much more has lead to an  increase in anxiety and severe health issues like insomnia,depression and adoption of unhealthy drinking habits. An increased intolerance,low moods ,negative feelings and suicidal temptations are also seen in the people.All these are an indication of increased Financial Stress.Pandemic Covid -19 has further added to the proliferated downsizing rates among the companies worldwide. People are finding it  hard to make both ends meet. The question arises ,What can be done to cope up with such uncertain situations and to be healthy as ever.The best way to be mindful in such a situation is to practise the psychology of "ENOUGH".That means what I have now is sufficient and good enough to meet my present n...

DISTRACTIONS are and would continue to be a inevitable part of human life.In our day to day motion of existence our MIND is tangled in  the Demands of Future and Experiences of the Past .We are living in a PRESENT, full of Expectations from others, that, is sure to effect our State of Mind.Be it a target to be achieved for company,a bad tempered Boss,Noises made by Vehicles or Quarrels of the children around,each distraction causes STRESS.Mind is Restless and in a condition wherein 'I' am NOT present where I  ACTUALLY am. Studies reveal that people who are chronically under stress have lower levels of engagement with the present moment and MIND WANDERING which ultimately leads to exhaustion coupled by negative moods cyclically. But is there a way around I can make for MYSELF to be in PEACE? Can I stop Situations  to TAKE OVER ME?Oh Yes,Definitely " I STARTED HAPPILY  A JOURNEY WHICH NOW HAS ITS OWN PAINS.OH!!THAT IS NOT MY INNER SELF . I AM A PEA...

Miseries are an inevitable part of human life. Could it be petty outrages, minor humiliations, disappointments and treacheries they are inescapable.T hey reiterate,in the everyday life like an old friend in a new dress. The physical miseries seem still more pathetic and claim huge trolls on our income and mental peace. A Compassionate heart and receptive ears are real pain killers in such cramped situations. Empathetic words like, “I feel your pain”,” I understand” are magical! They seem to be rescues in  miserable conditions when heart and mind both are injured and struggling to fight out the pain. EMPATHY: Meaning EMPATHY is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. It empowers you to step into the shoes of the other person and look at the situation from his perspective. To feel what he is feeling without getting into it. It involves sensitivity, compassion, commiseration and affinity for the other person. It helps us to connect with other people and get se...

A leader is said to be a person who is able to influence a group of people to a particular set of action or a goal. But I personally believe he is more than that. An Effective Leader is a person who is futuristic, confident, enthusiastic, passionate, risk bearing and decisive. He is inborn with a creativity and innovation. He has a vision and knows where he wants to be. He is ready to invest himself in his dreams and accepts failures as a part of life. He is a role model for his team and continuously inspires and influences their behaviours. He motivates his subordinates to achieve a common objective and empowers them with his supportive attitude. He is a mentor, an achiever and a planner for the team. It is his experiments with innovation that makes a strong team in entrepreneurial or social world. The term leadership can be used variedly. However, one thing common with leaders, no matter what the situation be is that they are real influencers. With their RIGHT attitude, vision and ...