Skills to Succeed

In this age of never ending competition,where  survival of the fittest is the rule,Success doesn't always come to most talented person. A strong ignited force, zeal,positivism and passion to achieve the goal is a must.An action oriented drive is like a beam of electrons flowing into the bulb. Nothing but, Illumination is the result! Enthusiasm is that electricity to life.It is the real magic that converts  Skills to Accomplishments. Talents to Achievements and Obstacles to real Success stories.  It is an action oriented plan that keeps you ignited till U get what you seek. Be it Managers at work places or team heads on social grounds people who are charged with an overflowing energy and intense aptitude to achieve earnestly make the difference. Drained souls just make a living no matter how talented. They prove to be mediocre and low achievers. "The path to success is to take massive determined action" - Tony Robbins Enthusiasm is defined as  intense excitement,fervo...

Man is gregarious by nature. He cannot survive in isolation. He needs people around to talk ,share,love and even compete! Life seems meaningless without such an affair. Seclusion is an abuse,isn't it? No matter it is a relationship or work-life ,the people around us are divergent in their ways and many a times not of our choice. But,we have to keep going as the culture demands and their comes a point when hostility,  differences and collisions start making their way and life struggles for a breathing space!  Is diversity actually a curse? Not, Of Course. If their were no differences in natures , behavior , backgrounds and even cultures of people their would have been monotony around where every one  would think like the other and no fresh infusions occur.Imagine  a rainbow with a single shade! Life seems meaningless. But, are we mature enough to Accept people as they are ?Do we respect their differences? Are we ready to tolerate their diversities to generate peace an...

Conditions may heat up many a times. May it be conflicts or challenging conversations in day to day life or at work, at times running out of control leaving everything ruined and plans shattered, as they never existed. The damage to emotions and relationships irreparable ! Can you recall one from your life? When aggression was at prime and nothing but a cool inter mediator was required to handle it? That person seemed to be a fire extinguisher in such a situation. Isn't it? He with his skills resolved everything without upsetting anyone. Self-esteem preserved at both ends. Sounds magical isn’t it? But this is true. There are a set of skills referred to as Diplomatic Skills that actually work  it out. They help us to take care of situations before they actually run out.   Diplomacy: Meaning It is an art of dealing with people and demanding situations in a sensitive and tactful way. It a win -win approach to conflict resolution. A prudence in handling people to meet one’...

ASSERTIVENESS There have been situations many a times in our life when we are surrounded by bossy, dogmatic people. It takes an arduous effort to make space for oneself. At times these people who are real leeches tend to be extremely toxic and demanding. They push us to situations where neither flowing nor fleeing is possible. It is difficult to breathe and make a way out. Voicing out oneself in the right perspective gets important here. What should the correct approach ? "If  you don't have a seat at the table,you're probably on the menu."                                          -                       -  Elizabeth  Warren                                                ...

Angry,happy,surprised,disgusted,sad what are your emotions today?Are you aware of all  your emotions?Can you manage and control them well?Do you have an understanding to the feelings of others?Do you manage happy & healthy  relationships with others to stay connected ?Well ,if Yes then you are lucky.You are blessed with extrovert nature and an innate understanding of Emotions. You are Emotionally Intelligent. Emotional Intelligence: Meaning Emotional Intelligence  is associated with an understanding of feelings of self ,control on the feelings of self ,understanding the feeling of others emphatically and managing relationships well so as to be successful , contented and happy in personal and professional relationships. Be it home,society,office or any possible place we cannot survive in isolation.So as to carry on with people at home or coworkers at workplace it is important to understand self and emotions of others so as to make healthy,authentic relationshi...

It began with a smile followed by an appreciation for every little thing that I am blessed with  and it helped heal my wounds!Isn't it amazing? but true.Does a depressed ,anxious mind always need a medication?The answer is ,No.There is a beautiful emotion,underused ,in present times that can make us happier, productive,optimistic and stronger at relations called Gratitude. GRATITUDE:Meaning Gratitude is a feeling associated with appreciation,thankfulness and a return of kindness.It is acknowledging the goodness we carry in our lives.It helps us to see what's there instead of what isn't. It makes us more positive,It is like a magnet to miracles. It helps us to connect with the good we have and the good others have been doing for us.Result is improved happiness ,better relations and increased productivity powered by optimism. Every time we express gratitude we throw a positive energy in the universe.Energy has its own scientific principles and laws. One of it states...

One of the Buddhist philosophies says "Respond don't React".There have been situations many a time that have triggered an Emotional Imbalance in us,which left us overwhelmed,anxious and helpless.Could it be deadlines,targets to be achieved,over expectations of spouse or people around ,sarcastic remarks or an unsolicited advice ,we all have witnessed an emotional overflow ,Isn't it?Unfortunately,at times injurious to career and relationships and we are left with a "could  it have been so"or " should it had been" statements to ponder on. Provocations have been many and sometimes indescribable .We ourselves may not be aware what made us react. but  we did, Question here arises "Can we be in command of our feelings ?" Can we be the masters of our moods instead of being slaves to someone else's acts?".Answer is YES. This is not our innate self .We are pure and peaceful souls .The need is to reconnect ourselves with the inner bl...